From idealising to realising

This exercise will help us in seeing our partners and ourselves as we really are...the real us... who are the actual people that are getting married...not the fantasy version of us.

Fill in the first two columns, by scoring yourself and your spouse on each characteristic from 1 to 7,

                                                                                                                                            where 1 is low and 7 is high.

Then swap and fill in the third column in the same way. Calculate the difference in scores and discuss.